• Virgo Woman Dating a Sagittarius Man| The Inside Scoop + Interviews

    by  • June 13, 2011 • All, Life + Love + Spirituality, Virgo + Sagittarius • 13 Comments

    This was originally posted into 2 separate posts. The Beau’s Post was first on 3/4/2011, and mine 3/23/2011.
    I would first check out this article to get the gist of Virgo and Sagittarius relationship love and compatibility.

    I have kept the integrity of all answers… I sent the Beau his questions in an email and this is what he sent back. (Disclaimer: If you think he’s joking then he probably is…. if you’re a Sadge, it will be easy to recognize ;) ). And of course mine are for real. This would not be helpful to you otherwise. Enjoy!

    Interview With a Sagittarius Man Dating a Virgo Woman. Part 1.

    What do you like most about your Virgo woman?Sagittarius Man Dating Virgo Woman

    She’s nurturing and caring. She takes genuine pride in doing things for others. She gets a lot of satisfaction seeing the enjoyment I get from a home-cooked meal, or my reaction to some project she’s completed, like decorating the den into something that resembles a livable environment.

    What do you not like about your Virgo woman?

    We focus on different things. I tend to focus on the overall picture, whereas she focuses intensely on several specific areas. A perfect example would be the living room. I’m happy if the floor, tables, couch, etc is relatively clean and uncluttered. She would rather the floor be spotless, but doesn’t mind the pile of laundry that needs to be put away.

    Is it difficult to communicate?

    It can be, but it can make for humorous conversations. She likes in depth complex answers, but sometimes the question only requires a word or two. Example: “Do you like product X?” My answer would be “yes” or “no”. She often wants to know why I like or dislike something, but I answer the question that was asked….never give up information that you don’t have to!

    Does she nag you?

    No. She’ll mention something….and I sometimes misjudge the level of importance she puts on it. But that goes back to the communication thing. I don’t ask for more information, and she doesn’t give it because she doesn’t want to nag me.

    What about you aggravates her the most?

    Probably my dislike of wearing shoes in general. I love feeling the carpet, or grass, or even gravel beneath my feet. She’s paranoid about foot cleanliness, so I know it bothers her that I don’t wear shoes when I go outside. We compromise though…..I’ve stopped putting my feet on her forehead.

    Do you tolerate more? Or adapt more?

    A bit of both. There are little things that bug me, but I don’t make an issue out of them. I just file them away as a minor annoyance. If I know something is important to her, I adapt as much as I can. I am a very strong-willed, principled, person, and a lot of the principles have absolutely no importance in the greater scheme of things. There are a few areas where I simply refuse to compromise, so that creates some tension from time to time.

    How is the sexual attraction/appeal/life?

    In general, it’s great. We have different approaches though. She would rather the mood be right, and the night be perfect….whereas I like it more if the mood is right, but I believe the mood will improve if given the chance. We’re both adventurous, but we both have different ideas of what is “ideal” The key is compromise. One week, it’s her fantasy, the next week…it’s MY turn.

    What do you like most about your relationship in general with your Virgo woman?

    I love how loyal and committed she is. I know that there is no danger of unfaithfulness. Will she kill me in my sleep? Probably. But she’s not going to cheat on me until after I’m dead.

    What would you like to improve?

    We both have preconceived ideas and beliefs. I would like her to put hers aside when we’re at odds, and try to see things from my perspective. She could, of course, make the same argument, but this is my interview!

    What is your favorite thing to do with your Virgo woman?

    Climbing into the Lotus, getting lost on the back country roads, finding some hole in the wall restaurant, and spending the day enjoying the countryside.

    What advice would you give to other Sagde men dating a Virgo woman.?

    Keep a firm hand. When she tries to leave the kitchen…..kidding. Just keep in mind that there are communication differences and that just because she doesn’t speak your language, that doesn’t mean she’s disagreeing with you. We’ve had several “arguments” where we later realized that we were both arguing for the same thing, just expressing it differently.?

    Interview with a Virgo Woman with a Sagittarius Man. Part 2.

    Virgo Woman Dating a Sagittarius ManWhat do you like most about your Sagittarius man?

    His stubbornness, the behemoth inside, the lust, the eccentric…ness, taboo humor, and his endearing love and support.

    What do you not like about your Sagittarius man?

    His stubbornness… lol. Sometimes it comes off as close minded… though I know he’s not, it just seems that way.

    Is it difficult to communicate?

    Yeah this is the hardest part for me. I like to talk, talk turns me on. He’s very quick to the point and assumes that’s what I am being also… not the case. He likes it short sweet and simple and I like to indulge in conversation about anything that comes to mind or things that I feel are important. Problem is, if it’s not important to him… it’s obvious.

    Does he nag/annoy you?

    No not really. I let him know if he is and then he will back off… he knows that if he pushes it too far it will backfire, and I won’t do it… or I’ll take my sweet time. :p

    What about you aggravates him the most?

    His definition of … clean. Lol, It’s the perfectionist in me vs. his just do it… then it’s done attitude. Other then that not much, he’s strong willed and I’m not so much, I can adapt much better. If it seems like it’s going to be an argument I will start thinking of compromises and he will continue to argue his point, enticing me to further argue mine. I feel like our scraps should only last 10 minutes… no more. But, we really don’t argue much.

    Do you tolerate more? Or adapt more?

    A little of both but I say I adapt more. There’s not really a whole lot that I tolerate though. We seem to be on the same page about a lot of things, we just have different ways of expressing ourselves.

    How is the sexual attraction/appeal/life?

    FABULOUS… he’s a beast. Tender, loving, sexy… just one of those geeks disguised in the spread of a GQ Magazine. He can rush things… I like it slow, then let me dominate. :)

    What do you like most about your relationship in general with your Sagittarius man?

    It’s mostly easy. Not much more to say than that. “You be you. And I’ll be me. And we’ll just enjoy ourselves.” There’s never really a dull moment, and if there is, it’s OK… it’s just called “relaxing” then.

    What would you like to improve?

    Lol, communication… I don’t know what else to say about that. I would rather him ask me my point of view on something first, than for him to start spewing his opinion… it sounds more like he’s “laying down the law”. Then I get defiant. :p

    What is your favorite thing to do with your Sagittarius man?

    Chill, joy-ride, and explore. That’s the best.

    What advise would you give to other Virgo women dating a Sadge man?

    Let him do what he wants, lol. He will tend to get his way a lot… or he will seem to.. but realize 2 things.. (1) If he didn’t “LOVE” you, he would not waste his time with you, he sees a future and an end result that is worth it to him. And (2) He’s not selfish in a bad way, he just knows what he wants and what he likes and doesn’t like (a great opportunity for my Virgo lady’s to be inspired and do the same) , but they will try anything once… so have fun with it.

    Well, I hope you all enjoyed these interviews. I had fun with them and Chris did too. :)

    Is there a question we didn’t quite answer? Insight to add? Curious about something? Find it helpful? Leave it in the comments below. I love discussion and the Beau loves to play. ;)

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    Hi, I'm Salina. A Proud Virgo. A Creative. A Blogger. A Youtuber. An Aspiring Entrepreneur. It's my aim to do my best to enjoy life and all that comes with it. I hope to inspire others to do the same!

    13 Responses to Virgo Woman Dating a Sagittarius Man| The Inside Scoop + Interviews

    1. mia
      July 3, 2012 at 2:27 am

      my question is, why do sag. Want their space, how much of space is required?

    2. theluckyvirgo
      July 28, 2012 at 9:26 pm

      That’s a great question! They do tend to like their space. I’m not sure why (possibly because they tend to like their freedom and privacy?), but the best way to find out how much space they need is to just ask them, they’ll be honest with you. Thanks for the question!

    3. Meryl
      November 30, 2012 at 7:45 pm

      Hi! its an insightful and nostalgic interview :) I’m a pisces (but with Virgo likness) and i am in a relationship with a sagittarius. A lot of these characteristics and points of relflection ring a very big bell with me! :D obvioulsy not every sagg or virgo or person is quite the same but things like communication and how you two see things from different perspectives strike similarly to me also! i like to analyse, he like to keep it short and sweet. and yes its true Sagg’s lovvve their freedom! so never make them feel they have no space or freedom or theyll run a mile. Well even im not a sagg but i love my space.
      Anyways thanks for the insight,

      :)

    4. gdixon828@aol.com
      December 1, 2012 at 2:54 pm

      This sag I met makes me feel like I’m the only woman in the world. In the beg it was constant adoration. In the last week he seem distant. Although he still brings me lunch at school and calls me his love, he doesn’t communicate like he did in the beg of our relationship. What’s the deal?

    5. gulshansaggar@gmail.com
      December 9, 2012 at 9:53 am

      my question is………………..i am a saggitarius man and my wud be wife is a virgo woman
      just wanted to know if i marry her ,,,will her stars favour me in earning good money or making me financially strong?????
      i mean would she be lucky for me financially

    6. jetta_b
      March 22, 2013 at 8:04 am

      This was so helpful. I’m a virgo woman and I’ve been dating a sagittarius guy for almost three months now. This interview sounds just like us only with more concrete understanding of each partner. Thanks!

    7. Lia angeline
      April 13, 2013 at 1:59 pm

      Hi,
      I hope it’s not too late to ask.
      I’m close with this sagg man. And he said he loved me.
      The problem is, i never met him before and he lives so far away from my town. Can i believe him? I know sagg man loved they freedom, but can i believe that he really loved me?
      We will meet next week in different city (he have meeting in different city with his living). He already send me a ticket to fly and meet him. He also ask my opinion about the hotel.
      What do you think?

      Thank you so much for your reply…

    8. theluckyvirgo
      April 13, 2013 at 7:07 pm

      You’re most welcome!

    9. theluckyvirgo
      April 13, 2013 at 7:49 pm

      When me and my fiance first met, we had not met in person yet. We would talk on the phone quite a bit for the first 5 days before we finally did meet in person, and it’s been history ever since. We both knew we loved each other before we met just from the conversation alone. I would ask him more questions if I was in your situation. Specifically, what are his expectations/intentions with this trip and the future. If you have reservations or concerns about him, you should wait. Never do something you are uncomfortable with. If you trust him, then do it. I knew I could trust mine before we met. You’ll have to be honest with yourself first! Also, I know Sagg don’t like to waste time, and usually say what they mean. They also don’t like to be second-guessed. Make sure when you ask your questions, you are not second-guessing him. But,be direct. I hope that helps friend!

    10. Joey
      May 25, 2013 at 10:54 pm

      Ahhhh…thanks so much for your insight LuckyVirgo & the lucky Sadge better half. I dated a Sadge for ten years (on and off…smh) and had to let him go, I missed the Virgo/sadge interaction. Recently I met another who seems like I can compromise better with. Question: as a Virgo woman can you go wrong with giving them too much space? Can it make them eventually feel rejected?

    11. theluckyvirgo
      May 26, 2013 at 9:28 am

      You’re welcome! Thank you for your comment! And to answer your question, yes. I think we have to be careful with giving them space in a sense the we should really only give them space when they want/need it, to do their thing. When we are giving them space for no apparent reason, this can make it seem like you’re not interested = playing games (mine hates this… doesn’t like to waste his time),etc. This is where good communication comes in, and just making sure each others needs in re: to the other person are met. Hope that answers your question! Thanks again!

    12. Monique
      July 29, 2013 at 1:10 am

      Hi i am a young virgo newly wed woman married to a young sag men, well its like im a very independant strong young lady and i really love my husband its just that when it comes down to being dependant he isn’t acing well in that area, and by being newlywed it really sttresses me to the point i sometime feels like its not going to happen for him. Must i remind he is a sweet heart in all areas except financially it seems im always making the decisions, im the one doing everything even thinking for him.. What wiuld you say about this??

    13. August 24, 2013 at 9:45 am

      I’m a Sagittarius and many times attracted to Virgal’s .Things tend to grate on my nerves though, like this obsession with “fixing” us. Reorganizing our lives. We like things the way they are! We don’t think we need
      “fixing”. But that’s the nature of Virgo, a fixer upper, organizer (the nurse sign).

      It takes work.

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